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I am 45 and when I was 32 I had a cataclysmic breakdown that destroyed the very fabric of my being. This was and still is the best thing that could have happened to me. I all of a sudden was naked in front of the mirror to my my soul. I had no masks no defense and no esteem. I had to change, I had to become the person I was meant to be. I am telling you from my own experience that change and renewal are the best tools for survival ever. I found my peace once I accepted myself for who I am and not for who I wanted to be. The only person you need to please is yourself! Those in your life that matter to you will not mind and those that mind do not matter! This is all about you mate and you are the most important person person in your life.
I like the saying of ‘This too shall pass’ and it always does. I have spent many years not knowing who I really was and I spent a longtime in a dark place not of my making. Masks and demons but as with everything there came a time for a break and this break very nearly broke me but in time it passed and I became the man I should have been many years previously. Change at it’s best and always worth the angst. My gratitude is for a journey to hell and back. I stood on the edge of an abyss and fell, my journey back to the top taught me a lot about life and I am grateful for the change I went through.